Posted on 31 October 2019 - 09:33 PM

I saw alot of people saying problem they have , and here is mine , i think my parents want to divorce , and i feel so sad about that , what should i do.

Last edited on 03 November 2019 - 09:36 PM by nved

Hello,

I'm sorry to hear what's happening over by you, you have my regards:
To answer what you're asking, the situation at hand isn't necessarily your problem to attempt to fix. The main priorities are to care and help yourself and your siblings that you may have. I would also recommend talking to someone that is either a.) a close relative, b.) a professional therapist or c.) a close friend. Allowing someone to help you is the best thing to do. What I don't recommend is to get angry at your parents for this event. Although I understand you might be experiencing some harsh feelings and have built up anger, your parents are also experiencing the same type of emotions. What you should do instead is try and give them as much space as they need. You should also let nature take its course: The reason as to why I'm stating this is because letting things happen naturally is better than forcing it. What I mean by this is that you shouldn't attempt to try and get your parents back together, it will only make things worse; Would you rather see your parents Happy yet Separated, or Together but Miserable and Angry? The Last thing I would recommend is to get out of the house more often; Go to a Friends house, go to the movies, the park, or wherever, just get out of the house more often so then a.) your parents get breathing space and b.) you don't interfere with their problems.

Divorce is a very upsetting situation, but it does happen in life. I really hope you take what I said into consideration, and I wish the best of luck to you. Please let me know if you need any more help, I'm always available on Discord: MyPerks#1010


Kindest Regards and God Bless,
MyPerks

Last edited on 04 November 2019 - 11:14 AM by BloodyShooter

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