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I feel so guilty

Posted on 05 May 2016 - 11:46 PM

There are things you hear about on here like depression that you ignore until you get a 1st or 2nd-hand experience. Well that happened, my best friend dated someone who was depressed(kind of got over it while they were dating) for a long time. It wasn't going well and they broke up. She got depressed again, this time far worse. She is cutting herself and might even be suicidal. I was encouraging this break-up without realizing this. I feel so bad, and will only feel worse if it gets worse. Like should I do anything? Ask for help? I need help from toxic gamers on the internet who say kys all the time, because that honestly is where I can share stuff I can't express at school.
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Posted on 05 May 2016 - 11:54 PM

Tell on her and keep anything that she can use to harm herself away
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Posted on 05 May 2016 - 11:56 PM

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Posted on 05 May 2016 - 11:58 PM

Prixy wrote

Well it appears this is quite the tough situation, I fortunately have not been faced with sometihing of the sorts. However, I will try and put some of my thoughts into this. So, I have a few questions. Are you close with the possibly depressed person? Is your friend close with her after the breakup? If your friend is still close with her then its honestly more in his power than yours. If someone who is depressed is going to open up at all it has to be someone they have a real bond with. So if this is the case then just encourage him to talk it out with her. If you yourself are close with her, you have to be that person to stand up. Its really quite sobering to see the reality of depression and contrast it with the attention whores of social media.


Do what you did when our former clan member was depressed
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Posted on 05 May 2016 - 11:58 PM

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Posted on 05 May 2016 - 11:58 PM

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Posted on 05 May 2016 - 11:59 PM

Prixy wrote

SporkHandles wrote...


Confinment isnt the key, resolving problems isn't that simple. What are you five?


my name is nascqrchessfan24
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Posted on 05 May 2016 - 11:59 PM

Prixy wrote

SporkHandles wrote...


What are you refering to?


Idk it was on skype and you kicked me out
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Posted on 06 May 2016 - 12:01 AM

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Posted on 06 May 2016 - 12:03 AM

Prixy wrote

Well it appears this is quite the tough situation, I fortunately have not been faced with sometihing of the sorts. However, I will try and put some of my thoughts into this. So, I have a few questions. Are you close with the possibly depressed person? Is your friend close with her after the breakup? If your friend is still close with her then its honestly more in his power than yours. If someone who is depressed is going to open up at all it has to be someone they have a real bond with. So if this is the case then just encourage him to talk it out with her. If you yourself are close with her, you have to be that person to stand up. Its really quite sobering to see the reality of depression and contrast it with the attention whores of social media.

I am not too too close to the depressed person, but I'm certainly close enough to the point where they like say hi and stuff. Like, we talk. My friend is not at all close with her after the break up. I'm not very very close to her, but she listens to what I say, and I know her close friends are pretty supportive.
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Posted on 06 May 2016 - 12:04 AM

Prixy wrote

ty_rex222 wrote...


Hmm try and make conversationg I guess, im not particularlly too social so I would not know. If all else fails you must tell an adult.

ok thanks :)
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Posted on 06 May 2016 - 12:08 AM

ty_rex222 wrote

Prixy wrote...


ok thanks :)


If things are awkward I just talk anyway like it's not, I don't know if that helps but atleast make him try since he probably was the reason why she wasn't depressed
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Posted on 06 May 2016 - 09:06 PM

Have her call a place that helps depressed and suicidal people
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