Posted on 30 March 2017 - 09:00 PM
So… Hi Emendings here and I kinda want to ask out my crush but I'm shy and insecure on what people think of me. I don't want to get rejected any tips?Posted on 30 March 2017 - 09:09 PM
DaGoldBrick wrote
Wow a +1 for me then
Posted on 30 March 2017 - 09:25 PM
Try to make it casual and make sure not to slur your words. Make eye contact and stand up straightPosted on 30 March 2017 - 09:42 PM
1. Try to start a friendship with this person, get to know each other a little before you make any big moves.2. Get closer with the person, ask for their number, snapchat etc… some other way to contact them and start talking more often. Dont be too clingy however.
3. Once you become friends and talk more you can start flirting, start off slow with compliments and see how they react. If they seem to flirt back keep it going but if not go back to taking it slowly.
4. Go for it. Ask them out in a normal way and say you have had feeling for a long time, see what they say.
Rejection is honestly not that bad, sure you may feel down but maybe they weren't the right person for you. don't be scared of rejection tho, the worst they can say is no. You may be insecure but if you stay shy and small you never know what could happen. You have to take a chance and go for it all out.
Posted on 30 March 2017 - 09:55 PM
Purpkey wrote
2. Get closer with the person, ask for their number, snapchat etc… some other way to contact them and start talking more often. Dont be too clingy however.
3. Once you become friends and talk more you can start flirting, start off slow with compliments and see how they react. If they seem to flirt back keep it going but if not go back to taking it slowly.
4. Go for it. Ask them out in a normal way and say you have had feeling for a long time, see what they say.
Rejection is honestly not that bad, sure you may feel down but maybe they weren't the right person for you. don't be scared of rejection tho, the worst they can say is no. You may be insecure but if you stay shy and small you never know what could happen. You have to take a chance and go for it all out.
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if shes not in the popular crowd then you can just go for it, if she is just follow purp's tips
Posted on 31 March 2017 - 01:11 AM
ask to play 8 ball and start from therePosted on 31 March 2017 - 02:02 AM
1. Send them a text saying, "Do you want to go see a movie this Friday night?"2. Wait for reply
3. If reply is good, you done pulled it off!
4. If she says no, reply with the following: "Omfg, seriously?? I can't believe my dumbass brother would send you that shit, smh. Lmao so sorry, guess I need to put a harder password on my phone than 1111 >:("
Posted on 31 March 2017 - 02:15 AM
Quick @AlbertEinstein move it before he doesPosted on 31 March 2017 - 04:55 AM
Just do it, even if it's uncomfortable. Also if you don't mind me asking, how old are you? I could give some advice from my experience but it may not help you if you're super young or something.Posted on 31 March 2017 - 12:19 PM
Bobbles wrote
exactly and don't do awkward shit with ur hands
Posted on 31 March 2017 - 12:20 PM
All these tips are really good. Looks like we have some ladies men in this server.One thing I know is that girls love confidence, and if you have that you'll have a much bigger chance than other guys who don't. If you're confident, look her in the eyes when you talk you'll be gucci. It's nerve racking, but if you strap down and grow a pair you can do it.
Also tell us how it goes so we know you got her ;)
Posted on 31 March 2017 - 01:36 PM
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